Lydia was born at 08:00 at Fazakerley Hosital Liverpool.Lydia was a bit of a shock to her as Pam was 100% convinced she was having a baby boy, so when Lydia was born i remember Pam asking the nurse to double check the baby's sex.After enduring some sleepless nights Pam persuaded me to have a vasectomy and so we decided to stop after two! Lydia always made Pam laugh with her cheeky smile and non stop talking and with Jen running around (yes Jen running!!) it was always non stop in the home.During the next 10 years we were very happy and i thank Pam for making me a very,very happy husband,father but most of all Pam was my soulmate.I cannot imagine my life without her or her influence on me.In 2002 we were told the devastating news that Pam had Breast Cancer but as a couple and family we were all determined that Pam would survive this scare.She was only 41!!!